In reality, the name at the top is more for your benefit. The person(s) who owe the money, the obligor(s), are person(s) who sign the note (in the capacity in which they sign). For example, if a loan is made o Mary and both Mary and Mother sign the note both Mary and Mother are co-makers. If a loan is made to Mary and Mother and both Mary and Mother sign the note both Mary and Mother are co-makers. You see, there is know technical difference.
Now, how you fund the loan will determine if one of the parties is an accommodation party. Both can be primary obligors with one being an accommodation party. If you don’t know what it means to be an accommodation party talk to your attorney. It is important to understand accommodations.