Well, I'm a banker, and am a bit confused by your question. For one, how would a customer know in advance to block an unauthorized transaction? You don't know about it until it hits your account, hence the term unauthorized. As far as granting only authorized transactions, I'm not aware of any bank that requires customers to tell them in advance what debits to accept.
As far as terms "unauthorized," "debit," "transaction," I think that 99.99% of business customers understand these.
Perhaps if you could better clarify what issue you are having with the customer?
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