What sort of proof would you accept? I don't know that any will be readily available for this sort of dispute. Otherwise, your reasoning appears sound and I wouldn't pay the claim until she satisfies your questions.
If you do end up refunding the fees, at least you haven't lost any actual money; and you can tell her to take her business elsewhere.
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