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#1033465 - 09/03/08 03:17 PM
SSA death benefit?
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Hello All,
I have a question I wanted to see if anyone has had experience with. My mother and father are both in their 70s and both on social security (pretty much their only income source). My father is very ill and has just a short time left with us. We are trying to get all our paperwork together.
Does anyone know the ins and outs of social security's death benefit? Does my mom get part of my dad's benefit upon his passing, etc.....
Driving to navigate through the SSA website is a struggle and getting through on the phone has not been a success. I just wanted to see if anyone else has been through this.
thank you!
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#1033705 - 09/03/08 05:30 PM
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While I don't know the answer to your question, I just want you to know that I'm praying for you and your family through this difficult time.
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#1033716 - 09/03/08 05:34 PM
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Skittles
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sum...I echo Duchess sentiments! It is the most awful experience you are going through...so I will be praying for you.
As I remember after my fathers death my mother started getting HIS benefits because his was the most. If my mother's had been the most between the two nothing would have changed for her. So whomever get's the most in SS that is the one she would receive.
So sorry for what you are having to deal with. Hugs & Prayers!
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#1033921 - 09/03/08 07:23 PM
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Dan Persfull
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We went through this with my dad when my mom passed away. His social security benefit was greater than hers so he continued to receive his own benefit. If my mom's would have been greater he would have begun receiving hers. At any rate, he was not entitled to receive both. Also, I believe there was a one time death benefit payout of about $250.
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#1033972 - 09/03/08 07:47 PM
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RR Sarah
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What about to an adult child? Do they get a death benefit?
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#1033986 - 09/03/08 07:58 PM
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Snow Bunny
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The adult child gets nothing. No death benefit or partial months payment for the last month the parent was alive. I know this because I was the executor of my mother's estate fou years ago and we got nothing. The death benefit only goes to a spouse.
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#1034063 - 09/03/08 09:09 PM
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Thanks for all the responses and thoughts.
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#1034263 - 09/04/08 12:59 PM
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Thanks FS - doesn't seem fair, does it. The bills still keep coming, and when the parent's money runs out, the doctors, hospital, etc have to write it off. No wonder medical bills are so high.
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#1034658 - 09/04/08 05:15 PM
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The adult child gets nothing. No death benefit or partial months payment for the last month the parent was alive. I know this because I was the executor of my mother's estate fou years ago and we got nothing. The death benefit only goes to a spouse. Ditto on the scenario if the parent has an adult child and a minor child. Minor child gets benefits, adult child gets zilch. My sis got a ridiculous amount of $$ until she turned 19. No I'm not bitter
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#1034664 - 09/04/08 05:18 PM
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The adult child gets nothing. No death benefit or partial months payment for the last month the parent was alive. I know this because I was the executor of my mother's estate fou years ago and we got nothing. The death benefit only goes to a spouse. Ditto on the scenario if the parent has an adult child and a minor child. Minor child gets benefits, adult child gets zilch. My sis got a ridiculous amount of $$ until she turned 19. No I'm not bitter Ditto that!
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#1036347 - 09/08/08 12:41 AM
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I found out about the no partial payments the hard way. My mom died on the 25th of May and they took back the May payment. I still had her May bills that were due. What a rip off.
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#1036621 - 09/08/08 04:42 PM
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Hubby's uncle died on the last day of the month; and yes, they took back the entire month. It really should be pro-rated. I am surprised that AARP and the other Seniors' lobbies don't try to do something about this.
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#1038273 - 09/10/08 12:26 AM
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adult children only receive a benefit if they are some way incapacitated and unable to work (disabling illness that started as a minor, mental retardation, etc.) and are 100% relying upon the parents for support.
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#1038306 - 09/10/08 01:54 AM
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there is still the death benefit of $255, right?
my dear old mum worked until she was 81, so her benefit was well in excess of my father's since he retired in '65
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#1039079 - 09/10/08 06:14 PM
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Only for spouses, not children. Well, adult children, I don't know about dependent children.
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#1060536 - 10/08/08 07:30 AM
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I know that I will probably get blasted. But I suggest looking into Final Expense insurance. In the big scheme of things it is pretty cheap per month, usually ranges from 40-60 per month. There are many different ones out there and if you purchase it early enough, it is cheaper. Also, if you or your parents have medical conditions, there are some that are pretty much guaranteed issue.
Things that it can used for is funeral expenses (which are quite expensive figuring in the cost of a casket, vault, plot, etc...) and final bills. Most range from 5K - 25K.
My mother took one out on a family member's spouse after the other spouse passed away. Since they ended up paying for the funeral, thank goodness we knew the funeral director and he gave my parents a huge discount). Basic 10K policy that will pay for all the final expenses.
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