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#1174120 - 05/01/09 02:21 PM Why give up privacy?
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Because everybody else is!

Would you share the most intimate details of your life with a stranger, such as cheating on your taxes or sleeping with a friend's spouse? You'd be more likely to tell if you thought everyone else was doing it, say a group of researchers at Carnegie Mellon University.

The results of their study could help explain the slow but steady march toward "anything goes" behavior on social networking sites like Facebook, where users are notorious for revealing too much information about themselves.

Msnbc.com has obtained a copy of the report, which is to be released next month. In it, the researchers worried about what they called a "frog effect” on the public. Like a frog that doesn't notice it's in danger when sitting in water that slowly comes to a boil, consumers are not noticing that personal privacy standards are slowly eroding.


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Very interesting article!

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#1174124 - 05/01/09 02:23 PM Re: Why give up privacy? buggs
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<----- reveals nothing

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#1174128 - 05/01/09 02:25 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Miscuit
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#1174134 - 05/01/09 02:29 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Miscuit
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Your choice in clothing says otherwise. whistle
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#1174137 - 05/01/09 02:29 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Miscuit
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Pulling people out of the ditc...
Originally Posted By: Miscuit
<----- reveals nothing


revealed that she reveals nothing, meaning she really does reveal something...
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#1174140 - 05/01/09 02:33 PM Re: Why give up privacy? HappyGilmore
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have i revealed too much?

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#1174141 - 05/01/09 02:33 PM Re: Why give up privacy? HappyGilmore
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Originally Posted By: Miscuit
<----- reveals nothing


revealed that she reveals nothing, meaning she really does reveal something...


^^^how philosophical^^^ grin
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#1174363 - 05/01/09 04:43 PM Re: Why give up privacy? A_G
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Sharing private details is an exercise in freedom.

"It is impossible to go through life without trust: That is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself." ~Graham Greene, The Ministry of Fear
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#1174370 - 05/01/09 04:46 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Becka Marr
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Originally Posted By: Becka Marr
Sharing private details is an exercise in freedom.

But only when we *choose* to share those details, Becka.

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#1174384 - 05/01/09 04:53 PM Re: Why give up privacy? buggs
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Pulling people out of the ditc...
the article you link talks about how people are sharing this information freely...no one is making them
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#1174391 - 05/01/09 04:58 PM Re: Why give up privacy? HappyGilmore
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its not like their phone calls are being listened to or their emails read....
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#1174392 - 05/01/09 04:59 PM Re: Why give up privacy? buggs
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Originally Posted By: Bugs Bunny
Originally Posted By: Becka Marr
Sharing private details is an exercise in freedom.

But only when we *choose* to share those details, Becka.


Sure, but isn't that what the article reveals? That more people are *choosing* to share those details? The point of the study seemed to be that when other people disclose information, we become more willing to disclose similar information because it appears safe to do so. There didn't seem to be any sort of coercion about it.
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#1174400 - 05/01/09 05:05 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Becka Marr
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It all comes down to our growing narcissism, our belief that everyone in the world cares about what we are doing at every moment.

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#1174421 - 05/01/09 05:21 PM Re: Why give up privacy? straw
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I don't think that's narcissism, straw. A narcissist is wholly indifferent to whether someone else cares about him.
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#1174427 - 05/01/09 05:26 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Becka Marr
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#1174439 - 05/01/09 05:32 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Becka Marr
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Originally Posted By: Becka Marr
I don't think that's narcissism, straw. A narcissist is wholly indifferent to whether someone else cares about him.


We don't post because we want people to care about us. We think we are so darn important and interesting that people must want to know every minute detail of our life.

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#1174455 - 05/01/09 05:38 PM Re: Why give up privacy? straw
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Originally Posted By: Becka Marr
I don't think that's narcissism, straw. A narcissist is wholly indifferent to whether someone else cares about him.


We don't post because we want people to care about us. We think we are so darn important and interesting that people must want to know every minute detail of our life.


Ok, but Narcissus is the one who ignored all of Echo's important and interesting details, not the one who shared his own.
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#1174462 - 05/01/09 05:43 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Becka Marr
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Well, then I guess it is a sign of the echoism in all of us smile

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#1174466 - 05/01/09 05:44 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Becka Marr
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I have to agree with Steve; why do you think there are so many reality shows on TV? I cringe sometimes when I hear what people are willing to reveal about themselves, even to the point of accepting money to hurt someon's feelings..

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#1174498 - 05/01/09 05:58 PM Re: Why give up privacy? straw
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Well, then I guess it is a sign of the echoism in all of us smile


grin

Really, I find it best not to second-guess anyone's motive for sharing information and just think of it as a gift. If it is given voluntarily, then it is free and unconditional and they have no expectation of anything in return. Once given, it belongs to the recipient, and he can do what he likes with it...
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#1174502 - 05/01/09 05:59 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Becka Marr
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I think I have tried stating this before but was refered to as a nazi for it... Oh well
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#1174504 - 05/01/09 06:00 PM Re: Why give up privacy? kms
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#1174507 - 05/01/09 06:03 PM Re: Why give up privacy? Becka Marr
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Originally Posted By: Becka Marr
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Well, then I guess it is a sign of the echoism in all of us smile


grin

Really, I find it best not to second-guess anyone's motive for sharing information and just think of it as a gift. If it is given voluntarily, then it is free and unconditional and they have no expectation of anything in return. Once given, it belongs to the recipient, and he can do what he likes with it...


I am not second guessing anyone's motives. God forbid, I might be judging someone and after all who are we to judge anyone. (sarcasm)

All I am saying is the younger generation, raised on the idea that their self-esteem should be maintained no matter what, might have a little too much self-esteem that they deem their every little action to be so important it should be trumpeted world wide.

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#1174509 - 05/01/09 06:06 PM Re: Why give up privacy? HappyGilmore
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Originally Posted By: Happy Gilmore
the article you link talks about how people are sharing this information freely...no one is making them

You're very observant, Doc. Gold stars for you!

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#1174511 - 05/01/09 06:06 PM Re: Why give up privacy? kms
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I think I...was refered to as a nazi for it... Oh well

Not by me.

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