The only official direction I know of comes from the commentary to Regulation DD:
3. Combined statements. Institutions may provide information about an account (such as an MMDA) on the periodic statement for another account (such as a NOW account) without triggering the disclosures required by this section, as long as:
i. The information is limited to the account number, the type of account, or balance information, and
ii. The institution also provides a periodic statement complying with this section for each account.
You are not required to disclose whether or not you used a combined statement so you are not required to provide advance disclosure of a change. You are not required to allow a customer to opt out nor would I, but I would respond to customer requests for limiting the accounts included if it was possible. Noting the restrictions above, you may combine different types of accounts; e.g. DDA, MMDA, time deposits, IRAs, HSA's etc.
This is a good question for a post. It's not a purely legal question and your peers, like EddieT, can give you some good insight if they take the time to do so.
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