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#134411 - 12/16/03 12:02 AM
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Maria--the problem is with your first answer. Knowing that he will not make a decision, do not ever throw it back in his court. Instead, when he asks that question, name the most expensive place you can think of. If he questions it, tell him that is REALLY where you want to eat. Get as specific as to name a dish they serve (even if you've never had it). He can do one of two things: 1. Pony up for the meal--after all, he did ask; or 2. He'll have to make a decision and begin the conversation with, "hey, I sure am in the mood for a McDonalds hamburger, how about you?"
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#134412 - 12/16/03 03:29 PM
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Maria--the problem is with your first answer. Knowing that he will not make a decision, do not ever throw it back in his court. Instead, when he asks that question, name the most expensive place you can think of. If he questions it, tell him that is REALLY where you want to eat. Get as specific as to name a dish they serve (even if you've never had it). He can do one of two things:
1. Pony up for the meal--after all, he did ask; or
2. He'll have to make a decision and begin the conversation with, "hey, I sure am in the mood for a McDonalds hamburger, how about you?"
I love it, Z! Thanks, I will try it this weekend!
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#134413 - 12/16/03 04:16 PM
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Z - You're not an attorney for nothing!
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#134418 - 01/29/04 12:06 AM
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Okay, I agree with the other posts that "Stupid People Suck", but today.......
HMDA SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It can be sooooooo confusing!! I just want to go home and forget it exists!!
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#134419 - 01/29/04 03:22 AM
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but today.......
HMDA SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry - you've got that all wrong. HMDA sucks everyday!
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#134420 - 02/04/04 02:04 AM
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LOL I'd say I'm glad to see my frustrations are catching, but I'd rather say that to someone who was taking them away from me. Today I actually had to tell someone that "A National Expert on CRA" said....so she'd hush and belive me. Sure I'm the national expert...heh heh I've taught in several states in the nation anyhoo, but who's checking names. Funny she believed someone she didn't even need a name for but me...she has to question!
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#134426 - 02/05/04 09:08 PM
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LOL Babe...I'd pay for your examiner big stick on occasion...it shuts them up quicker than the "national expert" every time!
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#134427 - 02/05/04 09:45 PM
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Well, you are welcome to tell them "An ex-examiner told me....." any old time. If you thought that would work. (Probably not, though, huh?)
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#134428 - 02/05/04 10:18 PM
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LOL well probably not. They all pray that all of us compliance and examier types will become "ex's" one way or another so they don't have to listen to us. Did I ever mention I was a lender? I was much nicer then I think
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