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#1455253 - 10/14/10 05:24 PM Prayers for my Ex
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I know this sounds weird - but he is my son's dad. He had a tumor removed from his bladder today and it was much bigger than expected - took up about 20% of his bladder. Hopefully everything will be fine, but there is a possibility that they may have to remove his bladder. Don't like the man particularly, but don't want anything bad to happen to him.

Thanks guys!
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#1455265 - 10/14/10 05:41 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Skittles
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Will keep him in my prayers.
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#1455269 - 10/14/10 05:45 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex waldensouth
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I know what you mean & I don't think it's weird.....I'd feel the same way.

Prayers that he gets better.
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#1455271 - 10/14/10 05:45 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Skittles
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Prayers coming your way. Stay strong for your son.

Been there, done that a few months ago with my ex----he passed away. It was so hard for me and my son's stepdad (who raised him) see him go through such a difficult time for someone who was not in his life.

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#1455278 - 10/14/10 06:00 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex MoodyBlue
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#1455287 - 10/14/10 06:07 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Dlynn58
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Prayers from PA.

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#1455296 - 10/14/10 06:13 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Ready to Retire
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would feel the same way Skittles..don't think that's odd at all!

Best thoughts headed your way.
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#1455576 - 10/15/10 12:37 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex RR Joker
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Prayers from PA, Skittles. You are a class act!
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#1455598 - 10/15/10 01:18 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Snow Bunny
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Not weird at all.

Prayers from Florida.

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#1455817 - 10/15/10 05:55 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex lucyc
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Best of luck to him.
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#1455826 - 10/15/10 06:04 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Retired DQ
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Thanks - and keep the prayers coming. He goes back to the doctor on Tuesday and my son told me the doctor said it may have spread. My son was going to New Orleans on Sunday for a mission trip - to help build homes. He's cancelling and staying with his dad.
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#1455890 - 10/15/10 07:54 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Skittles
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Prayers from Philly!

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#1456728 - 10/19/10 03:16 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex madukes
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The news could have been better, but it could have been MUCH worse. Apparently they removed about 25% of his bladder. The cancer is an aggressive form, but hasn't gotten into his muscle wall. They will perform this procedure again in 2 months to see what's going on. If it's gotten worse they will remove his bladder.

Thanks for the prayers everybody. They do help tremendously.
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#1456817 - 10/19/10 04:44 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Skittles
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Prayers from Texas.........please keep us informed..
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#1456871 - 10/19/10 05:48 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Quadspapa
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Saying a prayer...
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#1457236 - 10/20/10 02:44 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex East Texas
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only if I want to....
Lifting you all up in prayer!!!!
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#1457255 - 10/20/10 02:57 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex KTMiteComply
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Hopefully, they caught it in time...good thoughts ya'lls way!
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#1457562 - 10/20/10 07:45 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex RR Joker
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Show's you're a decent person. Nothing wrong with that. You put former issues aside and have compassion. Thank God! Wish everyone was so disposed.Prayers going out to you and yur family.

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#1457622 - 10/20/10 08:43 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Trees
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Sorry I'm just seeing this!! Prayers going up from TN!!!!
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#1464448 - 11/05/10 02:27 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Mrs. Rizzo
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I found out last night that it's worse than I thought - or that my son told me. The cancer has spread into the muscle wall and the procedure next month isn't just a scope - it's further surgery. I don't know if my son either 1) is in denial; 2) didn't understand what the doctor said; or 3) didn't want to tell me how bad it was. I think he would understand - he has a biology degree.
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#1464470 - 11/05/10 02:38 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Skittles
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Originally Posted By: Duchess Skittles
I found out last night that it's worse than I thought - or that my son told me. The cancer has spread into the muscle wall and the procedure next month isn't just a scope - it's further surgery. I don't know if my son either 1) is in denial; 2) didn't understand what the doctor said; or 3) didn't want to tell me how bad it was. I think he would understand - he has a biology degree.


So sorry Duchess, continued prayers from Phily

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#1464707 - 11/05/10 04:30 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex madukes
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So sorry to hear this, DS. Prayers are continuing.

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#1465328 - 11/08/10 04:27 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex hmdagal
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I'm sorry that it turned out worse. Good thoughts to all of you that they can put a stop to the spread.
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#1476285 - 12/06/10 01:45 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex RR Joker
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Prayers and positive thoughts would be appreciated. He is having his second surgery as I type this. I'm hoping for the best possible outcome.
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#1476287 - 12/06/10 01:50 PM Re: Prayers for my Ex Skittles
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Duchess, sorry I missed this the first time around, but know that he is in my prayers.
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