Massachusetts has no law that permits a bank to pay funds out of a decedent's individual account to a funeral home or assisted living facility. It does, as you obviously know, have a law (Sec. 33 of Chap. 167D) that permits payments of an account of $10,000 or less to a spouse or next of kin if no claim has been made by a representative of the decedent's estate.
Until you get a claim from a spouse or next of kin, you're stuck sitting on the account, which will ultimately become abandoned property. Between now and then, that ambitious funeral home attorney may try to bluff his way into accessing the funds, or attempt to attach the funds to satisfy his client's bill. I urge you to get bank counsel involved before things become adversarial so that the bank continues to act in a legally defensible way.
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John S. Burnett
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