The bank has no authority to determine whether a specific will is valid - that is the job of the court. Read the IRA agreement. I'm sure the default of the IRA is to pay over to the estate of the decedent which means she needs to probate the will. You can consult bank counsel, but I suspect you would be assuming full liability to handle any other way.
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