It's so frustrating when it comes down to something like this which benefits neither of you in the big picture, but benefits such a worthy cause.
I mean really...the Realtor usually will go with whichever lending institution they normally deal with...and won't come to you just for this donation...but those that normally do, it's just a shame.
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My opinion only. Not legal advice.
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