The regulations either apply or they do not. They cannot apply separately to collateral.
By the way, this is not AOC if you would not make the loan without the other property.
It also is a terrible idea from a bank perspective. You are putting both the son and father in jeopardy of losing their primary residences. Why would you make such a loan to someone who does not qualify??
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