rlcarey has bestowed a gift on your bank, saving you about 4 years in payments; I'm impressed.
Your CEO is saying that the VA was notified, but they kept sending the payments anyway? Then, your bank never noticed? I'm not certain being able to prove that would actually help you.
The weight of a CEO's insistence is the equivalent of a feather laid on a scale built to weigh a semi tractor-trailer.
In this world you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant. Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant.