Survivorship and agency are governed strictly by state law. The following is not based on the law of the state of Kansas, but a generality. If someone can cite you to Kansas law, take his or her advice instead.
If an account has more than one owner the better practice is to have all parties join in the appointment of an agent or convenience signer. If only one owner appoints the agent, then the appointment ends with the death of the person who appointed him or her.
When Dad dies, the girlfriend is no longer an authorized signer. Again, Kansas law may be different...
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