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#2073300 - 04/11/16 02:08 PM My mom has cancer
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My sweet 86 year old mom has colon cancer and she decided not to fight it. She's been frail the past few years and I'm glad she will enter her new life on the terms that she wants. She just went under hospice and the nurses and the Dr. are amazing. My 91 year dad is taking it pretty well, but is somewhat confused on all the different meds she is taking. I am so proud of my daughter nurse (the quads mom) who went with me to help take care of "Sugar" this past weekend. My sisters are there during the week and I go on weekends. Prayers would be appreciated.
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#2073319 - 04/11/16 02:39 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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#2073320 - 04/11/16 02:42 PM Re: My mom has cancer 3-2-Go
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I have been there with my MOM and it is a hard thing to watch. Prayers with you from CT

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#2073325 - 04/11/16 02:51 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers from South Central, KY Quads.
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#2073326 - 04/11/16 03:00 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Lots of prayers, Quad, for all of you.

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#2073327 - 04/11/16 03:07 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Sending lots of prayers from Michigan to everyone.
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#2073353 - 04/11/16 04:40 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Thinking of y'all.
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#2073360 - 04/11/16 04:49 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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#2073366 - 04/11/16 05:04 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers to you all.
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#2073369 - 04/11/16 05:08 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Thoughts and prayers. Tough to watch but our experience with hospice in our area was fantastic (considering...). Hopefully yours will be as well.

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#2073392 - 04/11/16 05:50 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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#2073397 - 04/11/16 06:00 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers from MI Quads for your mom and for all of your family.
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#2073414 - 04/11/16 06:32 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers, Quad. She sounds like a very brave and sensible woman.
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#2073439 - 04/11/16 07:12 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Consider prayers said, Q. May Jesus Bless your mom, dad and family during this difficult time.
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#2073443 - 04/11/16 07:19 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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More prayers for all!
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#2073447 - 04/11/16 07:33 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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I'm glad she is in the care of people you trust.
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#2073460 - 04/11/16 08:03 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers for your mom, and for all your family. I feel badly for your dad. I hope he can handle this ok.
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#2073465 - 04/11/16 08:21 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers for you and your family are being sent.
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#2073520 - 04/12/16 10:56 AM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers from MN for you and your family.
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#2073554 - 04/12/16 01:58 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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More prayers for your family.

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#2073647 - 04/12/16 05:07 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers said for your Mom and family, Quadspapa.
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#2073861 - 04/13/16 05:08 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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God bless you and your family quads. Thank God for the caregivers that do such good work in this area.
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#2073909 - 04/13/16 06:31 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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More prayers are being sent from Texas for you and your loved ones.
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#2073931 - 04/13/16 07:00 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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More prayers from MI for a peaceful journey. She is so blessed to be surrounded by family who support her in letting it be the journey she wants... prayers for each of you as well.
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#2077283 - 05/05/16 06:44 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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I am so sorry - sending my prayers as well.

I have a young friend, with a wife and 2 young children, that is going through his 5th round of chemo/radiation - they kill it and it comes back somewhere else in his body. He says this is the last fight he has in him - I can't imagine how hard it would be and what strength it would take your mom to make such a decision let alone someone in their 30's.
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#2077308 - 05/05/16 07:40 PM Re: My mom has cancer Beagles22
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So sorry for all. I hate cancer. truly hate it. Prayers for comfort and a no pain for all. God Bless!

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#2077330 - 05/05/16 08:55 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers from Texas. I have a friend in his 30's also with 4 children and the doctors say they have done all they can. Cancer reaches out and touches a lot of lives and not in a good way.

I am so glad your mother made her own decision and doing it "her way".
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#2078370 - 05/12/16 04:46 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers from Iowa for comfort and peace during this difficult time....Psalm 23: 4
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#2078423 - 05/12/16 06:50 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Prayers lifted up to the throne of grace. Strength, comfort, and peace to you and your family.
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#2078831 - 05/16/16 05:08 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Update on Mom: Our hospice workers and the 2 ladies we hired to help my Dad are just wonderful. I spent 3 days with Mom and Dad this weekend and she now does not know who I am, kept her eyes closed all weekend, but she did take her meds in a little bit of pudding. The stress has affected Dad a lot (age 91), he's so feeble and frail, but still mows his front yard. Next month would be their 69th wedding anniversary, but Mom won't last until then. The past 5 weeks seem both to have happened fast, but yet also seems like slo-motion. The end is drawing near. Sorry for the extended post.
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#2078832 - 05/16/16 05:17 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Please don't apologize, Quads.
My deepest sympathy to you all.
It's not easy watching those we love fade away, especially for your Dad.
Continued prayers for all and a virtual ((hug)) to you.

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#2078833 - 05/16/16 05:18 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Oh Quads - more prayers going up for your family - especially your dad. I know how my 91 year old mother feels after losing dad six months ago.

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#2078907 - 05/16/16 09:43 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of you, this is going to be a rough period for y'all. Knowing that it is spiraling down is hard to bear.
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#2078979 - 05/17/16 05:20 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to you and your family, Quad...
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#2079013 - 05/17/16 06:40 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Thoughts and Prayers being sent your way.
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#2079123 - 05/18/16 12:42 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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#2079185 - 05/18/16 04:15 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Continued prayers for your family Quads.
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#2079324 - 05/19/16 02:33 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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So sorry to hear this Quads - it is so hard to think of how those that have to carry on must feel during these times.
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#2085104 - 06/24/16 04:51 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Update: My mom passed away a couple of weeks ago. We had a nice funeral and times to see lots of family and friends. Dad is adjusting pretty good. Thanks again for all your prayers.
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#2085106 - 06/24/16 04:53 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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So sorry to read this, Quads. Prayers for all of you.
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#2085107 - 06/24/16 04:55 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Q - sorry. Hospice does wonders. Look back at the great times and think, no more suffering. Prayers for the family & dad.
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#2085110 - 06/24/16 05:02 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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My prayers are with you and your family as you continue to adjust. Glad the family was able to come together and enjoy each other's company!

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#2085115 - 06/24/16 05:25 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Will keep you in my prayers.
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#2085139 - 06/24/16 06:00 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Sorry for your loss. May you be surrounded by good memories during your healing process and they will be able to provide the comfort you need in the roughest moments.
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#2085184 - 06/24/16 07:44 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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I'm very sorry for your loss.
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#2085206 - 06/24/16 08:28 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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I'm sorry to hear this. Will be thinking of y'all.
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#2085342 - 06/27/16 03:54 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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I am very sorry for your loss.
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#2085451 - 06/27/16 08:03 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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#2086078 - 06/30/16 01:41 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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Sorry for your loss Quad frown
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#2086447 - 07/01/16 06:44 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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So sorry for your loss Quad. Cherish the memories. I hope you have some good ones of your mom with your grandkids.
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#2086557 - 07/05/16 02:18 PM Re: My mom has cancer Quadspapa
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My deepest condolences to you and your family.
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