There are so many times I want to cover my ears and pretend I didn't hear what I heard, but I don't feel that's the way to respond to issues. Curious what others will think, but, even as a female... I'm not sure I see this as a problem of the bank. What about fraternity members - would that be a problem as well? It isn't favorable that the officer is a member, but unless you're extending a loan to the club, is it associated?