I'm a tad confused, you say you accepted a cashiers check and placed a hold, but now are asking if it is okay to cash it. Did you send the item for clearing in your cash letter on the day received for deposit? If so, you don't have it to "cash" as the item is gone, your choice is to release the hold and allow the customer access to the funds, or extend your hold (although not sure what legal reason you would have to extend the hold).
if she is caught up in a sweetheart scam, she would be sending money out, not getting it in.
I suppose is what I am asking is what did you do with the actual cashier's check that was presented for payment?
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