In a way, you are both correct. But, both definitions are a little to narrow (for lack of a better word)..
Check Truncation is the removal of the physical item from forward collection and to replace or send either the substitute check or the information related to the original check.
So, prior to Check 21 truncation happened in a couple of instances. With electronic check conversion, the check was truncated by the merchant and information collected from the original check was sent through the forward collection system. Or, as your supervisor was trying to say, your bank truncated the check prior to forwarding a statement to your customer and it was replaced with either an image and information collected from the original check, or just the information collected from the check.
But now under Check 21 truncation can happen at any point in between. Your definition is applicable, but at the point of trunction, the original check does not always have to be replaced by a substitute check. An electronic image and information collected from the original check would also apply.
Hope that helps! If I have narrowed my definition too much, I'm sure someone else will chime in too!