Don't you just love it when Department Heads want to intimidate the Compliance Officer? Here's what I hate - Department Head blows up about some compliance issue and tries to force the Compliance Officer into agreeing with whatever fee, procedure, etc., the Department Head wants.
Then, come examination time when the issue becomes a big time compliance violation with penalities, restitution, file searches, etc., the Department Head will say "It's not my fault, the Compliance Office approved it!"
Stand your ground. Tell the big scary mortgage person "Look, I don't write these rules and I have NO CONTROL on whether or not this is a violation. However, it would be better if I find the violation and we correct it now than to have an examiner hand your head to you on a silver platter."
I try to take the tactic that I am there to make sure they don't get into trouble during an exam. If the Mortgage person won't listen to you, then do memos all the way around outlining your concerns and what courses of action you see as options.