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#567414 - 06/14/06 08:17 PM girls calling guys
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When is it ok for a girl to call a guy she likes?
When is it ok for a girl to call a guy she likes?
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#567415 - 06/14/06 08:19 PM Re: girls calling guys
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girls can call first, but dont call him again until he calls you, unless you knwo he is expecting you to call and you wont come off as overbearing or desperate
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#567416 - 06/14/06 08:20 PM Re: girls calling guys
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I agree with Dip, presumably, I wouldn't have his phone number if he wasn't interested.
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#567417 - 06/14/06 08:29 PM Re: girls calling guys
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I'm sure glad that a girl 13 years ago had the courage to make the first three calls to me. Guess I was either gutless, clueless or some combination of both. But nine years of wonderful marriage later it is a good thing that she did!

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#567418 - 06/14/06 08:30 PM Re: girls calling guys
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I thought girls and guys were supposed to be equals?

Just freaking call! You won't come off as overbearing of desperate if you call more than once. Heck, if he calls you every time, does that make him overbearing or desperate?

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#567419 - 06/14/06 08:30 PM Re: girls calling guys
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heehee, i mkae one of my boys call me...so he calls every few days, and i never have to call him :-P
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#567420 - 06/14/06 08:31 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Please call me.

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#567421 - 06/14/06 08:35 PM Re: girls calling guys
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It's much more direct that staring at someone for 4 seconds!!

I've come to the conclusion that if I want to call a guy, or tell him how I feel, I'm going to just do it. If he doesn't like it....screw it!! Don't want someone that's going to hold an interpreted "too quick" call over my head! Just not worth my time!

Worked quite nicely with my bf!! Called him 2 hrs after we met....he loved it!
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#567422 - 06/14/06 08:37 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Hmm.. interesting question... so if this guy and girl are in different states... then what?
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#567423 - 06/14/06 08:37 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Wow, I guess I must be more old school than I thought. Maybe thats why Im still single. No actually, I made the first move once and I wont do it again. I wont let my daughter call her boyfriend unless he has called first. My vote was only 2%. Thats bad.....
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#567424 - 06/14/06 08:46 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Guess in order for her to call.. she'd have to be given his number right... that is... unless she was the stalker type and had her own means of knowing this type of thing...
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#567425 - 06/14/06 08:48 PM Re: girls calling guys
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I made the first call to my husband. It took an absurd amount of thought before I did, though.

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#567426 - 06/14/06 08:48 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Guess in order for her to call.. she'd have to be given his number right... that is... unless she was the stalker type and had her own means of knowing this type of thing...




Assuming he gave her his number... that'd be a sign then that he'd be interested in hearing from her... right?
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#567427 - 06/14/06 08:55 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Back in my dating days...I would call a guy.
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#567428 - 06/14/06 09:13 PM Re: girls calling guys
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I must be pathetic; no girl ever called me.

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#567429 - 06/14/06 09:20 PM Re: girls calling guys
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What's your phone number???? I'm going to be in SFO for a meeting at the Fed tomorrow. . .

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I must be pathetic; no girl ever called me.


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#567430 - 06/14/06 09:21 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Hmm.. interesting question... so if this guy and girl are in different states... then what?




Are you claiming women are unable to pluck said number from mens' brains?

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#567431 - 06/14/06 09:22 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Xodus... look what've done.. now steven1950 will know how it feels for a gal to call him... no more pathetic Steven...

And Steven, I'm sure plenty of women have called ya...
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#567432 - 06/14/06 09:24 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Quote:

Quote:

Hmm.. interesting question... so if this guy and girl are in different states... then what?




Are you claiming women are unable to pluck said number from mens' brains?




Nope... we women are a smart breed...
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#567433 - 06/14/06 09:26 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Xodus... look what've done.. now steven1950 will know how it feels for a gal to call him... no more pathetic Steven...

And Steven, I'm sure plenty of women have called ya...




It's true, I never received any calls from any women. Worked out OK though. I made a couple of calls and got married a year later. We've been married fourteen years.

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#567434 - 06/14/06 09:27 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Quote:

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Hmm.. interesting question... so if this guy and girl are in different states... then what?




Are you claiming women are unable to pluck said number from mens' brains?




Nope... we women are a smart breed...




My mother proved to me when I was young that not only did the exterior body parts look different between woman and men, but women also had cerebral differences as well. Sure, guys might be better at math, but not many of us have invisible eyes in the back of our heads, can tell whenever someone lies to them, and can tell when we are thinking about doing something wrong!

So, I figure surely the female psychic abilities go as far as instinctively knowing the phone number of any guy they are interested in, or at least being able to make 4 seconds worth of eye contact, and asking a question, you know, like "Can I have your number, hotstuff?"

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#567435 - 06/14/06 09:27 PM Re: girls calling guys
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Xodus... look what've done.. now steven1950 will know how it feels for a gal to call him... no more pathetic Steven...

And Steven, I'm sure plenty of women have called ya...




It's true, I never received any calls from any women. Worked out OK though. I made a couple of calls and got married a year later. We've been married fourteen years.




Well.. then ya didn't need those females calling anyways...
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#567436 - 06/14/06 09:35 PM Re: girls calling guys
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I was the one who made the first contact with my husband. However, instead of calling, I sent him an email. I remember I asked him if he would want to get together to watch NCAA basketball sometime. He called me a few days later...apparently there is a 3 day rule...and we have been together ever since.
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#567437 - 06/14/06 09:36 PM Re: girls calling guys
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I have been out of the "game" for awhile, but I find it hard to believe this question would even have to be asked anymore. I loved it any time I would be fortunate enough to have a girl make the first call.

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#567438 - 06/14/06 09:37 PM Re: girls calling guys
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I've got the number and will be calling Steve tomorrow. . .and hope his wife doesn't mind!

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Xodus... look what've done.. now steven1950 will know how it feels for a gal to call him... no more pathetic Steven...

And Steven, I'm sure plenty of women have called ya...




It's true, I never received any calls from any women. Worked out OK though. I made a couple of calls and got married a year later. We've been married fourteen years.


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