Ok, can we quit the geek-speak and get back to a discussion of casual sex?

So, what do people regret most about their casual experience? Is it the feeling of being used, or trying to get out new stains?

Ah, you mean people should be polite? What are you thinking?

I don't regret any of it and have never felt used.

The casual sex thing was slowing down too much, but see now it is getting interesting.


I only regret one girl she was a stripper and my only intent was the sex but she got weird attached in just two weeks. I had to be quite hateful to get her to go away. I was young then so I didn't realize that some stippers were head cases.

I do regret a lot of casual sex I didn't have though....

Don't think of it as "used," think of it as "previously driven."

A stripper and you got your jimmies bitten while working?

You’re my idol.

Do I regret anything I did back in day? No, I learned some very valuable lessons.

You have to look at all of your previous experiences as what makes you who you are today.

Peepers...ROFL!

thank you, thank you. It's been a rough life...

That last sentence sort of indicates that you are insane, but perhaps not diseased, ignorant or intolerant. Why would you bring ignorant and intolerant into this discussion? Think about taking your hand off the trigger once in a while around here - it's getting old.

Are you speaking from experience, Little Banker Jen?

By the way, I really like the line "Jumping into sex". Also, kissing is always emotionally-driven, except if you are acting.

You're funny.

Sweetpeas, although I've not been in casual sex relationships, I don't think it's a bad thing. Just not for me. In fact, many of my friends are very free about their sex lives and that's all good!! I fully accept and appreciate them and their choices. However, I do feel that my decisions should be appreciated, as well, and not chalked up to me being a prude.

I'm not saying that I every thought you thought that of me, I'm just expressing my personal POV.

Exactly. I don't think any less of those people who feel differently than I do, but saying/implying that those people who have casual sex are disease-ridden or immoral is IMO ignorant and intolerant.

I've always thought that alot of people who pretend like they are "angels" are/have been just as bad as anybody else and they just choose to condemn others. I think human nature is human nature to a degree. I don't think people are really that different; some are just better at hiding their indiscretions than others. And Sweetpeas is right, you can catch a disease even though you are in a committed relationship; have you people seen how many married men are out there on the internet trolling? It is disgusting.

That's very true, SP.

That's a little ignorant, Bacon - how can you fully accept and, in addition, appreciate choices that result in money out of your pocket, the loss of life, and the majority of problems on this planet. We all directly and indirectly subsidize bad sexual behavior, worldwide. AIDS can be stopped today if those involved in casual relationships would stop having them, period. And that goes for all the other sexual related diseases.

AIDS and children without parents or children with one parent, normally a women not making sufficient money to care for a child or children are the predominate problems that are facing the planet. Appreciating those that elect to participate in activities that may and probably will exacerbate those issues is insane thinking, at best.

Those that engage in true casual sex at this point in time are somewhat less than human. Those that ‘appreciate’ the behavior are clueless, at best.

If your position and that of Sweetpeas prevails, we are all doomed.

Experience?? I'm just voicing my pov, X. I've been with the same person for the last 18 years of my life and I certainly don't see that changing anytime soon.
Glad you like the line, I was just trying to get my point across.
In your world a kiss is emotionally driven. In someone elses it's not. So what!

Patently false. AIDS could be stopped today if people WITH AIDS stopped having sex, if third world countries had better standards of health care and if infected drug addicts quit sharing needles.

_X_, perhaps I wasn't clear.

Casual, yet protected, sex is the issue I'm addressing. Casual, reckless, sex, does fit the parameters you've claim.

I can appreciate people taking ownership of their sex lives, and making appropriate decisions to do so responsibly. Perhaps that sheds light on my view?

People who procreate and then teach their children these ridiculous closed minded points of view are the reason we are doomed. Someone who preaches about moral behavior and then treats people immorally and inhumanely is a total hypocrite. We've had this conversations before...you're just plain wrong.

AIDS can be stopped by preventing people who are infected from engaging in unprotected sex, educating everyone else to have protected sex, stopping the sharing of needles and providing protection to those that can't afford it. JMO

Yes, let's get those drug addicts fresh needles.

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And then have casual sex with them... well at least until they get all skanky...