Anon -
RESPA does not prohibit the payment of fees for services actually rendered. If the mortgage company were to provide services beyond the mere act of referral, those services could be compensated. HUD has stated that fees can be shared if the referring party takes the application information (item “A” below) and performs an additional five out of fourteen services associated with real estate loan settlement services. In Statement of Policy 1999-1 HUD identified the following services as those normally performed in the origination of a loan:
A. Taking information from the borrower and filling out the application (or borrower’s worksheet);
B. Analyzing the prospective borrower’s income and debt and pre-qualifying the prospective borrower to determine the maximum mortgage that the prospective borrower can afford;
C. Educating the prospective borrower in the home buying and financing process, advising the borrower about the different types of loan products available, and demonstrating how closing costs and monthly payments could vary under each product;
D. Collecting financial information (tax returns, bank statements) and other related documents that are part of the application process;
E. Initiating/ordering VOEs (verifications of employment) and VODs (verifications of deposit);
F. Initiating/ordering requests for mortgage and other loan verifications;
G. Initiating/ordering appraisals;
H. Initiating/ordering inspections or engineering reports;
I. Providing disclosures (truth in lending, good faith estimate, others) to the borrower;
J. Assisting the borrower in understanding and clearing credit problems;
K. Maintaining regular contact with the borrower, realtors, lender, between application and closing to appraise them of the status of the application and gather any additional information as needed;
L. Ordering legal documents;
M. Determining whether the property was located in a flood zone or ordering such service; and
N. Participating in the loan closing.
There are some additional qualifiers and you can get the Statement at HUD's web site to check them out.
As far as "everyone else is doing it" - why are they pursuing your bank if they could just go to one of the others? As noted above in another post, those reports of others doing it usually cannot be substantiated.
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