There's not one place in the Bible where Jesus had to abuse someone to make them comply with his beliefs .
the parable of Jesus and the money changers in the temple comes to mind...
and there's just no place in society that calls for such actions
maybe not in your society, but many religions and belief systems in other countries not only call for this, but demand it. I heard on BBC radio today about an Iraqi girl that was stoned by her tribe because she was alone with a man from another tribe. Her father tried to intervene, and was told by his brothers that if he intervened, the entire family would be stoned along with her, as she brought shame to their tribe and teh family. While this may not be acceptable in your world, it is accepable in many.