I think your concerns are valid. What happens when a message is left for the wife, but the husband picks it up and finds out his wife has an account he didn't know about? Lawsuits have occurred over these kinds of issues.
From a practical standpoint, however, your bank has to decide if the risk is worth the reward.
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