Thanks for the feedback rlcarey! This is way over my head regarding DIDMCA, but below is the citation we received regarding how we could be exempt.
Also, regarding the the "brokerage fee", the regulation defines this as a broker or lender fee: (1) “Brokerage Fee†means a fee charged by a mortgage loan broker or residential mortgage lender that is paid by or charged to a loan applicant for mortgage loan origination in which no part of the fee is for service rendered by a third party provider. For the purpose of this rule, brokerage fee is synonymous with finder fee."
Federal preemption of state usury limits on first mortgages under DIDMCA applies to any “federally related mortgage loan†as defined in 12 U.S.C. 1735f-5(b) -
(b) … the term ‘‘federally related mortgage loan’’ means any loan which—
(1) is secured by residential real property designed principally for the occupancy of from one to four families; and
(2) (A) is made in whole or in part by any lender the deposits or accounts of which are insured by any agency of the Federal Government, or is made in whole or in part by any lender which is itself regulated by any agency of the Federal Government; or
(B) is made in whole or in part, or insured, guaranteed, supplemented, or assisted in any way, by the Secretary of Housing and Urban Development or any other officer or agency of the Federal Government or under or in connection with a housing or urban development program administered by the Secretary of Housing and Urban Development or a housing or related program administered by any other such officer or agency; or
(C) is eligible for purchase by the Federal National Mortgage Association, the Government National Mortgage Association, or the Federal Home Loan Mortgage Corporation, or from any financial institution from which it could be purchased by the Federal Home Loan Mortgage Corporation; or
(D) is made in whole or in part by any ‘‘creditor’’, as defined in section 1602(f) 1 of title 15, who makes or invests in residential real estate loans aggregating more than $1,000,000 per year.
The term “creditor†is defined in 15 U.S.C. 1602(f) as a person who both (1) regularly extends, whether in connection with loans, sales of property or services, or otherwise, consumer credit which is payable by agreement in more than four installments or for which the payment of a finance charge is or may be required, and (2) is the person to whom the debt arising from the consumer credit transaction is initially payable on the face of the evidence of indebtedness or, if there is no such evidence of indebtedness, by agreement.