...in the fullness of time, your state has a claim to the cashiers check as abandoned property. The remitter does not.
Regardless, I would not rely on the remitter's assurances that the company has ceased to exist. If he thinks you can stop payment on a cashiers check he is definitely not a good source of advice.
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In this world you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant. Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant.