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#891883 - 01/23/08 02:44 PM Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin....
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Brother is back in the hospital. Second blood clot in his lung in a month. Extremely healthy, 32 years old. Tests come up negative for all clotting factors, doctors dont know whats causing it. THey want to put a filter in his leg, that will stay there for the rest of his life. It could become dislodged and go to his heart(kill him) - but only extremely rare case(having 2 blood clots in 1 month while testing negative for all clotting factors is extremely rare.... )
Doctors also say that if the filter does its job he will need to get it "cleaned" on a fairly regular basis. He will also need to inject himself with medicine in the stomach for the rest of his life(at a cost of about 12,000 dollars a year)... and this is all on a guess becuase they dont know whats wrong with him. Of course both of those treatments would ensure he is still living, exceot in the case of the filter becoming dislodged) so that is good. I spent last night at the hospital because i couldnt get myself to leave. He has 2 sons one is 3 and the other is a year and a half. the three year old cries every time he finds out that "daddy isnt sleeping at home tonight"

It is just frustrating and hard to watch his new family go through this and for both our families(ours and his wife's) to struggle with this when they are supposed to be enjoying the time with the first grandchildren.

I know that God knows whats going on and I trust in Him. I would just appreciate some prayuers and good thoughts for him, his sons, and his wife. [censored], i could use some too...
thanks
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#891885 - 01/23/08 02:46 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... doobydoobydoo
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Prayers and thoughts with your family guy.
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#891896 - 01/23/08 02:53 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... #Just Jay
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{{hugs}} for the nanner.

prayers and good thoughts for you and your family from new england.

here dooby, dooby.....
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#891905 - 01/23/08 02:59 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... kitten
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#891909 - 01/23/08 03:01 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... doobydoobydoo
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Prayers for your brother, Dooby. It is so frustrating when you don't really know why these things happen.
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#891921 - 01/23/08 03:09 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... waldensouth
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Prayers and thoughts from Texas.
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#891972 - 01/23/08 03:52 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... *BUSTER*
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Prayers from MN.
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#891981 - 01/23/08 04:01 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Countess Kiwi
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Prayers, thoughts, and anything else I can get going for your brother 3D.

♥ ya...be strong
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#891998 - 01/23/08 04:22 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... cheekEE
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Prayers coming your way.

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#892014 - 01/23/08 04:45 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Angel Eyes
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Prayers are coming from Central GA. I hope they can determine what is the exact cause and treat him accordingly.
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#892025 - 01/23/08 04:52 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Skittles
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Doobs...you and your family are in my thoughts/prayers. Hang in there.

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#892060 - 01/23/08 05:20 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Miscuit
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Dooby, Hang in there!! Prayers and Hugs from Texas!!

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#892079 - 01/23/08 05:39 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Dlynn58
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3D, prayers and positive thoughts from AZ!
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#892093 - 01/23/08 05:44 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Bacon Boy
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I hope everything gets better for your brother.
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#892110 - 01/23/08 05:58 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... someone else
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Prayers from North Georgia. And many, many prayers for his physicians.

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#892211 - 01/23/08 07:25 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Ops
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Dooby- prayers always for your brother, and for his family and you and yours too. Keep the faith please.
Hugs too. I ♥ you, too.

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#892675 - 01/24/08 11:45 AM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... pjs
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Good luck to your bro and you and your whole banana family!
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#892694 - 01/24/08 01:33 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Retired DQ
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#892877 - 01/24/08 04:05 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Snow Bunny
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Prayers from Illinois for your family for strength and for the doctors for wisdom.
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#892891 - 01/24/08 04:15 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... BurntSienna
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I hope they figure out what's wrong soon.

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#892935 - 01/24/08 04:33 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... hmdagal
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Thanks a lot.

I just needed to get that out of my head, so I appreciate the venue to do it. And I appreciate your prayers.

I have been at the hospital till about 1 am with my brother the last two nights. We have been doing crossword puzzles and hitting on the nurses and doctors

They still do not know what is causing the clots or where they are coming from... but they have exhausted every test(twice). They are going to perform a procedure on friday that will put a filter in his leg and that should help. Now that I understand how the filter will function I feel a lot better about the situation. It is still scary.

Oh yeah, the other nigh while I was there... the person in the room two doors down from my brother died while I was there it was probably the eeriest thing I have ever experienced...
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#893096 - 01/24/08 07:03 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... doobydoobydoo
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::hugs:: and prayers for OR, nanner!!!
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#893388 - 01/24/08 09:51 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... Mrs. Rizzo
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Prayers and (((hugs))) from Illinois!!
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#894412 - 01/27/08 08:44 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... corkygirl
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Bananahead:

Ask the doctors if they have tested your brother for anti-thrombin 3 deficiency and protein C deficiency. Both of these genetic conditions are among a host off genetic conditions that can cause blood clots for no apparent reason in a perfectly healthy person, and they can remain dormant for many years, sometimes only appearing after some form of trauma.

Two of my family members had these conditions.

I do hope your brother comes through this like a champ, and he and your family are being lifted in prayer. Keep faith and hope going!
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#894559 - 01/28/08 03:03 PM Re: Prayer/Good wishes/i dont care just somthin.... TheManofSteel
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God bless your family Dooby, life is so fragile and quickly fading; you have been a real blessing to your brother
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