Take a look at Federal Register Vol. 74, No. 229/Tuesday, December 1, 2009 page 62944, first column, paragraphs titled (1) "For our everyday business purposes" & (2)"For our marketing purposes".
If you are sharing with service providers for your own marketing, you MAY choose to provide an opt-out. (But you may not). Therefore, I believe your disclsoure could say either:
Yes, No (we share, but you cannot opt-out because we are not offering you that ability)
or
Yes, Yes (we share, and we are giving you the right to opt-out)
We chose to go the Yes/No version..............
Hope this helps.